If you were dating someone for years and you two called it off completely and the other person starts talking to someone new just 3 days later, what do you all think of that? Because I honestly thought it took a little more than 2-3 days to get over a break up for normal people. It makes me think that maybe she NEEDS to have a guy there at all times. Do you think that's right?

She may need to have a guy in her life at all times, I know a few women like that. But sometimes if the relationship was called off --depending on who did the calling off-- it's called off because the feelings are no longer there, and chances are the feelings had been lost for sometime. Most peole in long term relationships don't just wake up and say they aren't happy, it's a feeling they have been struggling with for sometime.

Just because a woman is talking to man, does not mean she is sleeping with this man.

You broke up with her, so why are you keeping track, it is none of your business what she does now.

1. often called rebound, just jump to someone else because they are hurt
2. empty place, they are so used to having someone, they just pick someone new fast.
3. they were already talking to them and they were part of the real reason you broke up
4, they are doing this just to hurt you and make you feel bad.

Or some of all the above or some of none of the above.

I wasn't 'keeping track' on her. It came up in a conversation that day where she asked me if I was talking to someone new, which blew me away since it was only 3 days later and I said no, where she said she was starting to. And I didn't break up with her, it was a decision we both came to after another argument.

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Originally Posted by BankaiOP

I wasn't 'keeping track' on her. It came up in a conversation that day where she asked me if I was talking to someone new, which blew me away since it was only 3 days later and I said no, where she said she was starting to. And I didn't break up with her, it was a decision we both came to after another argument.

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When a break up happens leave each other alone, and stay out of each others business. What's the point of keeping confusion stirred up?

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Originally Posted by BankaiOP

If you were dating someone for years and you two called it off completely and the other person starts talking to someone new just 3 days later, what do you all think of that? Because I honestly thought it took a little more than 2-3 days to get over a break up for normal people. It makes me think that maybe she NEEDS to have a guy there at all times. Do you think that's right?

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It's called a rebound. These relationships almost never last.

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Originally Posted by BankaiOP

I wasn't 'keeping track' on her. It came up in a conversation that day where she asked me if I was talking to someone new, which blew me away since it was only 3 days later and I said no, where she said she was starting to. And I didn't break up with her, it was a decision we both came to after another argument.

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This is why all of us harp on the term "no contact". You wouldn't have asked this question if you followed it.