Ok there's this guy I know named Tony. He asked me out once and I said no... then a girl asked him out and he said yes... they formed a relationship very quickly and broke up after 2 months... that made me upset because he had a stupid reason why he did it, and another stupid reason why he wanted this other girl. He and the other girl started dating... they formed a relationship again very quickly... they broke up almost 2 months later. That made me furious... because he is breaking these girls hearts. Now he is dating my friend... and I don't want him to break up with her... if he does hell will break loose. He said he loves my friend but that's what he said with the other girls but ended up breaking up with them... I called him a heartbreaking a-hole and soon apologized(more than once) but he won't respond to me
What's a girl got to do?

This is not even any of your business and you should just stay out of it.

He can date anyone he wants, and your friend or the other girls know that he has dated and broke up. But guess what, that is what dating is all about, you date, find out about people and if it isnot what you want, you break up. I am assuming you are fairly young but though high school you may date and break up 4 , 5, 10 times who knows, and more as you become a adult.

And what "hell" will break loose, are you sure you don't want to date him and are jealous of the other girls now more than worried about them?

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

This is not even any of your business and you should just stay out of it.

he can date anyone he wants, and your friend or the other girls know that he has dated and broke up. But guess what, that is what dating is all about, you date, find out about people and if it isnot what you want, you break up. I am assuming you are fairly young but though high school you may date and break up 4 , 5, 10 times who knows, and more as you become a adult.

And what "hell" will break loose, are you sure you don't want to date him and are jealous of the other girls now more than worried about them?

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No I'm not jealous! I already have a crush on someone else. O.o the thing is... those other girls are also my friends... but they are dating him ONLINE!! And how can it not be my business when the girls are my friends and are being heartbroken?

Your job is to support your friends when they are heartbroken.
Your job is not to attack the person doing the heartbreaking.
Your job is not to anticipate events that haven't happened yet.
And where do you get the idea that most relationships last happily ever after anyway?
And tell us - you have never broken anyone's heart?

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Your job is to support your friends when they are heartbroken.
Your job is not to attack the person doing the heartbreaking.
Your job is not to anticipate events that haven't happened yet.
And where do you get the idea that most relationships last happily ever after anyway?
And tell us - you have never broken anyone's heart?

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I am supporting
I just said I was sorry
Never said relationships were a fairy tale...
Why are we even talking about me when I'm not the victim? Yes I have broken a heart before, but never like that