My boyfriend was fingering me over a thin layer of practice shorts, but he was going really rough and fast, and it felt like he was going pretty deep even though he was over my shorts. When I went to the restroom there was a lot of blood on my underwear. Im not sure if he popped my cherry? And the next day I was suppose to get my period that day, but I haven't. Im already going to be 4 days late, did that interefere with my period?

You don't have a cherry, but you do have a hymen and it sounds as though he did indeed break your hymen. And no, it doesn't interfere with your period, but pregnancy does.

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Originally Posted by J_9

You don't have a cherry, but you do have a hymen and it sounds as though he did indeed break your hymen. And no, it doesn't interfere with your period, but pregnancy does.

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I've never had sex, and he's never actually put his fingeres inside me. Just over my thin shorts. I've read a lot of posts that say when you break your hymen it doesn't bleed a lot, but I did. It stopped bleeding after that, but when I use the restroom I do get brown discharge sometimes. I put my finger inside me too see if it would hurt, and a little bit of blood came out. Is this normal?

It's very normal. The amount of blood will vary from woman to woman. Some bleed a lot while some only slightly bleed.

IT does indeed sound like he broke the hymen, the pants must be where he could push in some.

So there's no way I can be pregnant right? I've never even had sex.

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It's very normal. The amount of blood will vary from woman to woman. Some bleed a lot while some only slightly bleed.

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This can't make you pregnant though right? I was due for my period that day and I still haven't gotten it, its been a week know. My boobs also hurt a little. I'm concerned.

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Originally Posted by KellyKim

This can't make you pregnant though right? I was due for my period that day and I still haven't gotten it, its been a week know. My boobs also hurt a little. I'm concerned.

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If you didn't have sex, and his bodily fluids (sperm) never got anywhere near you, then you are not pregnant. A lot of times when you stress out about not getting your period it can delay it even further, and your worries about being pregnant can manifest themselves in your body.. For instance if you psyche yourself out and get it in your head that you are pregnant, then your body can do things that it wouldn't have normally done otherwise... Honestly I have thought I was pregnant before and after getting it in my head that I was my period was even later, my breasts were sore, I felt nauseous and tired and I wasn't even pregnant... It's called a hysterical pregnancy, where your mind is believing one thing so much that it makes your body do strange things. Don't worry about your period, it will come, and also it's very normal for periods to sometimes be irregular, so at times your body will skip some. Don't stress!

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Originally Posted by kissiscosmic

If you didn't have sex, and his bodily fluids (sperm) never got anywhere near you, then you are not pregnant. A lot of times when you stress out about not getting your period it can delay it even further, and your worries about being pregnant can manifest themselves in your body.. For instance if you psyche yourself out and get it in your head that you are pregnant, then your body can do things that it wouldn't have normally done otherwise... Honestly I have thought I was pregnant before and after getting it in my head that I was my period was even later, my breasts were sore, I felt nauseous and tired and I wasn't even pregnant... It's called a hysterical pregnancy, where your mind is believing one thing so much that it makes your body do strange things. Don't worry about your period, it will come, and also it's very normal for periods to sometimes be irregular, so at times your body will skip some. Don't stress!

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Thank you so much! This really made me feel better! :)