My boyfriend and I have been together for about 16 months. We are both 25. We used to have sex almost everyday or at least every other day. I thought we had a very good sex life. He's the type to aim to please. We have been living together for 9 months. Then after a while I started to notice that in the middle of sex his erection would go soft. And he would make me continue anyway. Then we started to slow our sex life down to maybe every three or four days. Now we're at the point to where its only once a week and I see the problem only getting worse. Cause its been 10 days since the last time we did it. Maybe my problem is minor, but to me, I feel unwanted or undesired. It breaks my heart when he doesn't even want to try anymore. I have tried talking to him about it, but its not solving any problem. Have I all of a sudden started to repulse him? Is he getting bored with me? He still kisses me passionately. He still wants to hold me at night when we drift off to sleep, but that's not good enough for me. I want him to want me again!

As relationships progress sex does get less and less. It is the natural order of things.

What is your lives like? Stress, exhaustion, worry, drugs, alcohol, and the like. The clue could be hidden in there. Is he over weight?

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