I'm really confused because I have a boyfriend in Canada and he is married and has 2 kids. He told me that he is separated from her wife. They sleep in different rooms but still under the same roof. He told me that he loves me, and soon he wants to divorce his wife. But I'm afraid he's not ready yet, as what he told me "it was so complicated".

We are 1 year and 4 months now. We're in different countries and it was so difficult that we only see each other on skype. He visits me once in a while. Now I'm trying to get a visa to go to his place, but I'm worried because his daughter doesn't know about me and I'm afraid what's going to happen next.

I really don't know what to do because I know there is some secrets he don't want to share with me especially if the topic is about his family. So I decided not to bring that topic or even ask because every time his reaction is not so good. Now I'm thinking is he really serious about me, or what?

You're just someone on the side helping him cheat on his wife. He's not going to leave her for you even though he may say he will.

Gain some self respect and dump him then find someone that you don't need to help cheat on their spouse.

If he wanted a divorce he would have already filed, he would have filed before he meet you. He has no intention of getting a divorce and you know he is not really sleeping in another room.

Does he know you are coming? You don't expect to stay under his roof do you? Maybe you better stay put instead of going to another country to service the needs of a married guy. Bad enough you allow him to see you, and continue this on line.

I have no doubt he loves your body and distraction, but keeps you out of his personal family business. So save your money and chalk this up to you fell for a married guy, and dump him. When he has his divorce papers in hand, only then do you believe a word he says.

Don't hold your breath.