Without my knowledge my husband withdrew over $120,000+ out of his 401 k in the last 10 months. Divorce has been on the table for the last 3 months since discovering his gross financial misconduct. We have been married for 15 years. Origanally My attorney told me I will receive spousal support and entitled to 50% of the 401. How can I ever get any of the 401 k now that it is gone?