While having sex with my girlfriend I go, build up and stop just before the point of no return. When I stop at this point only a small amount of juices are released, but when I repeat this process more than a couple of times my penis goes flaccid as if I just had an orgasm without actually reaching it. Each time some liquids are released it all ends up being about the same amount that would come out when I orgasm. Is there anyway to stop that tiny amount of seamen from coming out so I can achieve orgasm? Can make it to the point of orgasm if I start and do not stop, but it doesn't even come close to lasting as long as when I start and stop. Also have tried switching positions and changing the speeds but still doesn't seem to make a difference.

Orgasm and ejaculation are different things, although easily confused in males.