Broken up with my ex for the third time. She's 17 going on 18 I am 20 going on 18. We had a great time together however she became cold a month ago, perhaps doesn't want to be in a relationship now and wants to live a little I guess...

BROKE UP 3 weeks ago before valentines - my birthday 21st in 2 days great ey?

Recently got a message from her on myspace. Any advice. Should I reply or keep NC going? I could reply and get at least a talking friendship going, but I will only get hurt I would imagine as I want her back. I don't want to push her away completely by saying please do not contact me again... I really am struggling, She sent this:


Allright mush?
All right jamie boy how's it going? Have a good time in prague? Nice hair by the way! Looking forward to being 21? Old man lol write bk- would be cool to hear from you
Pippa
Xx

I guess it depends on what you are hoping will come out of contacting her. If you decide to contact her you'll be hoping to hear something back and if you don't, you're going to feel rejected and hurt. But if she does reply, you're most likely going to think that it will lead to something.
Maybe you should think about it for a couple of days, then decide whether you want to contact her. (and be ready for the consequences) good luck and have fun in prague:)

Looks like she just wants a friendship