My finace and I are having a lot of problems. I ended up lying to her because she hates my mom and I was over at my moms and I told her I was home not knowing that she had left a bunch of balloons at my house. So she caught me I know she is mad but I need to know more. She says she still loves me but she hasn't talked to me on the phone the last two days and I haven't seen her since Saturday and today is Wednesday. I found out she is talking to two old guy friends from high school but she says that they are just friends. I'm just confused because it really doesn't seem like she is willing to work with me on this! I know I lied but I didn't lie about anything huge! Please help I need to know weither she still loves me or if she wants to move on and just doen't have the heart to tell me yet!

I do not see this as working out. You two need a break or else to get into some relationship counseling. It does not sound like either one of you trust each other. With you lying, I cannot see her putting up with that. She can still love you but not trust you and not want to be manipulated by you.

I second what Shygrney says. You two need to be apart for awhile if not permanently. If she likes your mom or not the fact that if you even have to lie to her to her when you are at your mother's house something there are problems much deeper than your letting on.

So the minute you two have the slightest bit of drama she goes running to two old guy friends.

Convenient.

You two have a lot, and I mean a real lot of talking to do. Sit down and discuss these issues like adults and try and find a resolution.

IF you can't then it is time to part company!

<<I ended up lying to her because she hates my mom and I was over at my moms and I told her I was home not knowing that she had left a bunch of balloons at my house>>

That ridiculous, what else have you lied about in the past?

What age are you both ? She's your fiancée? You both sound like kids.