All right, so I like this guy. The only time he texts me is if he wants to come over swimming. He's been coming over swimming quite a bit but it's always with a group of people. A few times I have caught him looking at me so I don't know if that means anything. So I was just wondering if there is a way to get him to text me more, other than just to come over?

You text him every once in a while and see how he texts you back. It almost seems like he's using you for your pool but I hope I'm wrong. If he really likes you then he'll probably reply in a happy way. For instance, he may use a smiley face. If you like him, flirt a little. Don't be too flirty just keep it at a minimum.