Ask Me Help Desk - What should I do?

Okay so I'm going to lable everyone by there 1st initial. Im in 8th grade going into 9th and I really liked this boy 'A' since the beginning of the school year. We were supposed to go out but others told me how he would mess around with other girls. I wounded up going out with 'S' in October and we lasted 8 months. After we broke up I kissed 'M' and I realized I still had feelings for 'A' through out my whole relationship with 'S'. But 'A' had a girl friend and kept promising he'd brake up with her but I got tired of waiting and decided I was done now I'm with 'R' and I honestly don't have the same feelings for him like I do for 'A'. Am I a hoe? And what should I do?
Thanks for reading and PLEASE help.

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Originally Posted by VonniiDe101

Okay so I'm going to lable everyone by there 1st initial. Im in 8th grade going into 9th and I really liked this boy 'A' since the beginning of the school year. We were supposed to go out but others told me how he would mess around with other girls. I wounded up going out with 'S' in October and we lasted 8 months. After we broke up I kissed 'M' and I realized I still had feelings for 'A' through out my whole relationship with 'S'. But 'A' had a girl friend and kept promising he'd brake up with her but I got tired of waiting and decided I was done now I'm with 'R' and and I honestly don't have the same feelings for him like I do for 'A'. Am I a hoe? And what should I do?
Thanks for reading and PLEASE help.

Perhaps you should be worrying about school stuff and not boys because in a few years you aren't going to see any of them again. And there isn't enough space or time for an early teens mind or life for both things at the same time.

And honestly... the answer to this will be perfectly clear in a few more years to you.

Here is the thing. At your age, (and just so you know, I am currently 17 years old, not some adult) but at your age, the feelings that you have for someone will change depending on how you interact with them. You aren't a hoe for dating a lot of guys. However, you do seem like the type who needs to be in a relationship constantly. This does not make you a hoe either, but I will say that many guys, especially as you get older, will be very turned off by a girl who has had a crazy number of boyfriends already. Also, it can be intimidating for guys who don't have much experience in dating. I would stop focusing on dating right now because later on it will seem like a humongous waste of your time and emotions. If you slow down your game, who knows, maybe you will have time to figure out what you want in a future husband and start dating with an actual purpose. When you're married, would you want to have to tell your husband that you have only kissed 3 guys or 17? I hope you see what I'm trying to say. Well, I hope this advice helps you figure this out in some way! Good luck!