OK I'm in huge trouble and I really need some help.. well a couple of months ago me and my guy friend had like a thing for each other but I really don't know cause one time we kissed but we decided to never do it again and agree to just be friends.. so one day me and my other two guy friends were in my house watching movies and my sister wanted to go to sleep so she went and my guy friend followed her without me even noticing and when I was going go the room I found them "together" nothing inappropriate but they were "together" (if you know what I mean?).. so anyway I got really mad at him about it cause I really wouldn't care if it was with another girl but I really think that it was wrong for him to go with my sister so I started to ignore him and I really thought that if he really cared about me he would have at liest ask me what was wrong.. but he didn't.. and I really miss him right now we use to have a lot of fun time together and I'm planning of talking to him but I don't know if it's the right thing after what he did? Should I let it be or do something about it? Did I over reacted?. PLZ HELP ME I NEED ANSWERES:/

Forget about him, because he's forgotten about you. Don't make someone a priority in your life, when you're only an option in theirs.

Thank you so much:) that helped a lot

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Originally Posted by PR001

Thank you so much:) that helped a lot

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Friends come and go sweetheart, and it takes a lifetime to realize who your real friends are. Those who are with you through thick and thin.

Your right:) your really good at this by the way:D keep on a good work

So did you like this guy that was messing with your sister or were you just good friends?
A guy is not going to read your mind. If you are upset about something, say so or deal with it.
If a guy is visiting you and then sneaks off with your sister, he is a creep. Lose him.

I did like him but I was accepting the fact that we are just friends and he already knew I liked him but we just decided to be friends.. that's what I'm asking if I should go up to him and confront him about what he did or just let it be?

Let it be. It's not worth the drama

You told him you just wanted to be friends, that means you did not want to be his girlfriend, so he was free to find someone else, this was your sister, Your sister did not seem to mind or care it was your friend either. **or she would have told him to get out of the room too.

Why are you not mad at her too ?

They were free to do what they wanted, you had already said you had no interest.

If you had a interest, you needed to have said so.

Let it be. You had already established what the relationship was, friends.

I was mad at her for a long time but then again she is my sister and I have to deal with her everyday so I mite as well move on