Okay guys so I want you to be HONEST positive and negative answers PLEASE is it okay to like your cousin By MARRIAGE? We met five years ago... I mean it's something serious because I have a lot of feelings for this dude but my family looks at me like something is wrong and it upsets me because I can't help who I like and I'm just seeing it as we didn't grow up together or we aren't blood so y does it matter and then I feel bad and start thinking it is nasty I don't know confused so please give me your opinions... I'm 20 he's 22

Since you aren't blood cousins or related by blood, I don't see anything wrong with it. The family's "ick" factor probably comes about because of the already-established closeness. You'll have to weigh your family's upset against how much you two adults want to become a couple or at least date.

How does your cousin by MARRIAGE feel about you does he know that you have these feelings for him?

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Originally Posted by bonita82

How does your cousin by MARRIAGE feel about you does he know that you have these feelings for him?

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Yes he does we both liked each other held hands flirted etc...