Cannot figure out how to "RECALL" a send e-mail with Outlook Express. There is not an "Action" dropdown option like I have with regular Outlook. Any help/direction is appreciated.

That's because it can't be done with OE. The only reason it can be done with Outlook is that usually it is tied to Exchange mail server where the actual recalling happens (and then usually only within the same company's network). Email that goes through different ISPs cannot be recalled.