My fiancée n I have amazing sex 24/7, but he loves 2 go on nasty single sites 2 chat with other women. I don't understand! He's always being loving n affectionate like he really loves me but I'm always catching him lying about he didn't sign up for the singles sites. The joke on me is its always his profile name n password when I log in. Im tired of talking about it Because all he does is lie. SHOULD I STAY R GO! #SO CONFUSED

First thing that will get you really far on this site is to realize it isn't Facebook, twitter, or myspace. Please use all your words and complete sentences. Hash tags have no effect or meaning either. Type like the adult you are.

Second thing is far simpler. Yes you should probably leave him. You've already made that decision and just need someone to validate it.

The red flags as I see them:
* You don't trust him. You snoop on his computer and follow his digital life like a net nanny.
* His digital life is concerning. Porn is one thing but interaction like what he is doing is cheating, in my humble opinion, either on a physical or emotional level. Either way it isn't a good thing.
* He lies to you. Honesty and communication are key in any relationship and both are painfully absent in this relationship. At least from the four lines of text that I can see.

Dump him. Move on.

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Originally Posted by cocopuff29

My fiancée n I have amazing sex 24/7, but he loves 2 go on nasty single sites 2 chat with other women. I don't understand! He's always being loving n affectionate like he really loves me but I'm always catching him lying about he didn't sign up for the singles sites. The joke on me is its always his profile name n password whn I log in. Im tired of talking about it Because all he does is lie. SHOULD I STAY R GO!! #SO CONFUSED

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I think he's looking for a woman who speaks in whole words. That doesn't appear to be you.

Leave him. He lies and he's not happy.

On the page where you ask your question it is very clear not to use text words. So they are not being rude or smart, they are trying to help you. Professionals on this site are very serious, and often will not help you unless you properly ask your question. If you don't feel like following directions that are very simple, why should they waste their time on you.

Plus they are also giving you a honest answer, he is lying and doing live on line porn.

So why is he still doing it, because you allow it.

- And because he can get away with it.

I notice that after the OP was corrected concerning text speak the text speak actually got worse.

EDIT: OP apparently has two languages - one is rude, ignorant and borderline obscene... and the other is text.