Me and my boyfriend arnt having sex in months I know he's not cheating on me because we hang out everyday and we practically liv together. I tried giving him space and purposed we take a break but he doesn't want to.everytime I try to initiate sex he comes up with the same excuses. He's doing fine himself because he jacks off all the time about 5 times a day mabe more I don't know. But he says he loves me and shows me all the time, does he not find me attractive and should we break up

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Originally Posted by reyna10vikkie

me and my bf arnt having sex in months i know hes not cheating on me because we hang out everyday and we practically liv together. i tryed giving him space and purposed we take a break but he doesnt want to.everytime i try to initiate sex he comes up with the same excuses. hes doing fine him self becouse he jacks off all the time about 5 times a day mabe more idk. but he says he loves me and shows me all the time, does he not find me attractive and should we break up

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Child do he jack off too dude porn cause he probably on your team. I'm bi so I know I cling on to my boyfriend so my family and friends don't know but I love him but I'm not in love with him. Get what I mean or no

If he is doing it 5 times a day, he has a serious addiction issue, either to it or to porn he watches while he is doing it.

Now, perhaps he does not want to get you pregnant, perhaps he does it his self so much, he will have trouble having regular sex ( that is a very common issue) Perhaps his religious views don't allow sex at this point

Please tell us your age and your boyfriends ages this will help better help you!

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

If he is doing it 5 times a day, he has a serious addiction issue, either to it or to porn he watches while he is doing it.

Now, perhaps he does not want to get you pregnant, perhaps he does it his self so much, he will have trouble having regular sex ( that is a very common issue) Perhaps his religious views don't allow sex at this point

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I now that's not the problem because he knows I'm on birthcontrol and

He knows I'm on birthcontrol . Before we had a lot of sex at least enough to where we were OK. But I don't know what happen or what I did to make him not want me. Mabe he don't find me atractive anymore. But if that's the case why don't he want to break up? And he's always talking about god how he doesn't exist

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Originally Posted by bonita82

Please tell us your age and your boyfriends ages this will help better help you!

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I am 19 and he just turn 21. We should be at that stage where this shouldn't be a problem