Hi guys. I’m having a little problem with my crush at the moment. I'll tell you what's happening. I have liked this guy for 2 years now. I sent him a valentine and used to talk to him a lot! About 2 weeks ago this new girl started and my crush is not talking to me, and he's flirting with this new girl, in front of me!! I was nearly in tears because I am so annoyed with him. I was waiting to go into school and my crush and this new girl came walking into school with each other chatting like they've known each other forever. We only have 5 days left of school so he will be moving on and I’ll never see him again. (He is in the year above me so is the new girl!) When he moves into big school, I will be happy for him but at the same time I don't want him to forget me and make a relationship with this new girl. All I need help with is, how can I say goodbye to him and tell him not to forget me without being over the top?

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I thought of sticking a note in his bag (it would work.) But I don't know if it's a good idea...

Are you joking me? You're not even in a relationship with him. He is and seems to already have forgotten about you and you should forget about him. Why make someone a priority in your life when you're only an option in theirs.

He's your crush; you are not his crush. He thinks you're someone who sent him a Valentine card - and that's where it begins and ends.

Why are you saying good-bye? Is one of you moving away?

Otherwise - I'm not sure you ever said hello so good-bye is not necessary.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Otherwise - I'm not sure you ever said hello so good-bye is not necessary.

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Originally Posted by lalalalalalalal

I sent him a valentine and used to talk 2 him alot!

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I think she had the impression that he liked her, and is now upset that he is with another girl, and going off to high school.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

He's your crush; you are not his crush. He thinks you're someone who sent him a Valentine card - and that's where it begins and ends.

Why are you saying good-bye? Is one of you moving away?

Otherwise - I'm not sure you ever said hello so good-bye is not necessary.

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I used to talk to him a lot and he is moving away so how do I say good bye?

How about finally gathering the courage to talk to him? This has been your cursh, that you used to talk to all them time, you wasted all this time acting like his friend while you wanted more, you should have said something. If he is already in a relationship with this girl you need to back off and respect both him and the relationship. Remember that you have no grounds to be jealous considering that neither of you owe each other anything. The way you say goodbye is "Goodbye, hope that everything goes wll for you." And then you move on.

thanks a lot! But I'm too scared to talk to him lol!!

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He is moving away in 3 days and once he's gone, there's no way I can get in contact with him. =( I am really nervous when I'm near him so I am too scared to speak to him and tell him goodbye! So I thought of writing a short note telling him goodbye, and then when then when everybody was away, and when nobody was in the classroom I'd pop it into his school bag? That would work, but is it the right way to say goodbye?

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Originally Posted by lalalalalalalal

thanks alot! but i'm too scared to talk 2 him lol!!!

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Move on sweetheart, he's moved on from the looks of it. You'll meet someone else! Trust me.

There is nothing wrong it giving him a good bye note or card.

That's sweet, but maybe its best to let him go rather than be embarrassed because he doesn't seem to have a crush on you. Your crush will fade, and another will happen.

You shouldn't act on crushes unless you know they feel the same, and if he did, he would have said so.

Thanks! I have all ready written the note, all I need 2 do is give it to him...