I'm a 15 year old that is sooooooooooooooo in love with an 18 year old! I'm a virgin and he is not so obviously he has his needs... needs that I can't help him with because I'm too young and not ready to have sex! We have a long distance relationship and its funny how not a day goes by with me thinking that he might be cheating on me! I TRUST HIM FULLY!!

His the best boyfriend I have ever had. He doesn't expect me to have sex with him at all. But I think I want to have sex with him just so that I don't lose him. But its only been 3 months!!

I LOVE HIM A LOT. I don't see myself with no one else in the future! Should I do it with him?

You need help, seriously.

Are you ready to bear a child? Do you have a good job to fall back on to raise a child? Having sex is not only a bad decision at your age, but you're going to do it just to keep him! You do realize that if you have sex with him, he can go to jail and be listed as a sex offender?

How do your parents feel about you dating and wanting to have sex with an 18 year old. If they don't know, they need to be told.

Of course I don't want a kid thank you so much !I've gone to my sencez but one thing I can't do it break up with him I think what we hv is special!mom knowz I'm dating him but she said "NO SeX bby" and I'm going to respect that she loves me too much!

Having sex with him will not keep him, nor will it stop you from feeling he is cheating, nor will it stop him from cheating. Its only been 3 months, you are not ready for sex, it's a long distance relationship, and only YOU will be hurt by having sex with an older college guy, NOT him. Except he may go to jail, since you are under aged, and ruin his life, and a pregnancy will get your parents involved in an awful way for you both!!

So hell NO you don't have sex to keep a boyfriend, thats crazy, irrational thinking, so cut it out.

You may be young, and in love, but you don't have to be dumb!!

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Of course I don't want a kid thank you so much !I've gone to my sencez but one thing I can't do it break up with him I think what we hv is special!mom knowz I'm dating him but she said "NO SeX bby" and I'm going to respect that she loves me too much!

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Sorry I posted before the above comment, and its smart to listen to your mom, so the dumb comment obviously doesn't apply to you.

Sooo happy I joined this.! well thank you and jes I listen to mommy... because shez been through a lot due to pure pressure... she would hate to see me ruin my life considering the fact that I'm very smart.. she has big planz for me!! If he cheats its his loos... after all this isn't Romeo and Juliet... sooo nuthing lasts foreva..! I WANT to carry on with this relationship to see whr it endz up... after all we could be the couple that wa meant to be!!

I'm extremely happy that you realize that having sex, protected or not, can lead to pregnancy. Stay true to that, if he really loves you, he will wait.

Well he said his willing to wait for as long as I want to wait!! I believe him !

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Originally Posted by Sinovuvu

Well he sed his willin to wait for as long as I want to wait !!!I believe him !

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That's good, just don't let him pressure you into it. I wish you the best of luck!