To make a long story short. I have been in a relationship for 6years with this guy. We also have two kids together. First I want to let you know that he stolen money from me and I found it in my heart to forgive him. Now that I'm writing this I know that I had never fully forgiven him.

Shortly after I moved to another stated for a job and I met this other guy and we fell in love with each other. Then my current boyfriend found out that I was dating this new guy so I told him the truth. I told him that we were going to be together and everything. But then I decided that I didn’t want to be with him anymore and that I was going to make it work with my current boyfriend. Now that we got back together we told each other that we will be honest and we are going to try hard to make our relationship work. Recently I found that he has been emailing pictures of his penis to girls on craigslist and he has been doing this since we got back together. He told me he wanted me to see those emails so that I can hurt like he did. I asked him why he got back with me he says because he loves me and wants to be with me. It doesn’t make sense.

But this is the 3rd time that he has hurt me and the kids. I don’t know what to do I have no money to leave him right now. I don’t want to tell anybody about this because I’m embarrassed. I feel like a failure. Anyone have any suggestions of what I should do?? I don’t know if I’m ready to leave him.

Did you give up the job to go back with him? Or did he move to the new state to be with you? You never said. I have to say that after agreeing to be honest, and then pulling this stunt, that I think he flipped to you being the cause sounds bogus.

Get a good job, and get him to pay child support. Jumping back and forth between guys is no way to get your act together, so just work and focus on healthy kids is a goal, not having this guy. Doesn't matter the numbeer of kids you have made, that was easy, doesn't matter they years you have spent, that's easy too. What matters is that you hurt each other, keep count, and get revenge.

That's not love, and of that I am sure. Be good parents, because you are lousy partners.

If you ever want to be happy I don't think it'll be with this guy. You need to break the cycle for good, for the sake of your children.