I am looking for some advice as to how not to be misled or confused by a woman's beauty. Whenever I see a extremely beautiful woman I get into a state of bliss. How can I control this sensation so I can meet women not for what they look like but for what they have in their own essence?

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Originally Posted by alonsomat

I am looking for some advice as to how not to be misled or confused by a woman's beauty. Whenever I see a extremely beautiful woman i get into a state of bliss. How can i control this sensation so i can meet women not for what they look like but for what they have in their own essence?

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This is normal - so don't fight your attraction to the external, - however -
Give yourself permission to go deeper, engage lots of people ("attractive" or not) and get to know them. Smile , speak up and connect compassionately to lots of people both male and female as a friend and neighbour. Then you can meet women and not care just about what they look like but see them in a deeper way.

Thank you very much. I think I need to work on that. I can't go around all the time getting impressed by pretty women without getting to know them first.

the thing is that sometimes I quickly put my trust or faith on people (mostly women) I dont even know well. It might sound strange but I need to control that.