So a while back I got with my boyfriend who's 18 and I am 16 turning 17. He and I are in a long distance relationship and three months into our relationship I had cyber sex and I felt guilty but I lied and pretended it never happened he found out a lot of stuff happened we broke up for a few days and he gave me another chance. I have ed up so many times... I keep lying but I know he won't be mad at me for the things I lie about but lie anyway... I've done it so much and I want to stop but I can't I tried Councling and it didn't work he said "it's a choice to lie" and it is but I keep doing it I can't stop and today's our 10 month anniversary and we broke up today for a bit but he took me back after my begging... someone please help me I don't want to lose him... I love him so much and he must love me for giving me countless chances... Please help me

And on top of it I'm an extremely jealous person

Try thinking of the consequences before you do things, or say things, or you need a LOT MORE counseling. Maybe a year or so more!