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  • Jun 16, 2012, 02:04 AM
    Sandra18
    Which guy is the father?
    I'm 21 weeks pregnant. My last cycle was January 15. I had sex with guy1 On January24 and guy2 January25-26. My Ovulation Days Where January 25-30. Guy1 used a condom guy2 didn't. I'm not to sure if guy2 ejaculated in me buy guy1 said the condom was full and he think some came out. Guy2 is having allot of symptoms as far as throwing up and eating and Guy1 is just sleeping allot! IM SO CONFUSED As to who the Father is and when did I get pregnant!
    CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME?
  • Jun 16, 2012, 02:34 AM
    tickle
    What has the guys having symptoms got to do with anything !

    Only way to find out who the father is is a DNA test for both of them.
  • Jun 16, 2012, 02:36 AM
    Sandra18
    Ok Thanks and I only said something about symptoms because I read about it!
  • Jun 16, 2012, 04:00 AM
    ScottGem
    While some guys do have sympathy pains when their partners are pregnant, its too soon for that (I'm assuming you haven't told either yet). So their symptoms have no bearing.

    There is no way to tell which one is the father. The sex is much too close. To ovulation. You will have to wait until the child is born and have a paternity test done.
  • Jun 16, 2012, 04:01 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    The one with the full condom, did not put it on properly, there is to be space at the end for the fluids. This is one of the many reasons condom failure rates are so high, condoms not used properly.

    There is plenty of sperm often in the early fluids, so that does not show anything.


    So one guy is tired and another has the flu?? These don't mean or show anything, and are a complete myth.

    There is no way to tell even if they guys were 8 days or so different, this close together there is no way at all to tell who the father is. You will have to do a DNA test once the baby is born.
  • Jun 16, 2012, 06:31 AM
    DrMdmzd
    Hello,

    Sperm can fertilize an ovum for about 72 hours after ejaculation. So, assuming that you ovulated on the 25th or 26th, sex on the 24th or the 25th or 26th could have caused your pregnancy.

    Either of the guys can be the father. Only a DNA test will be able to identify which one.

    I hope this helps.
  • Jun 16, 2012, 06:37 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by DrMdmzd View Post
    Hello,

    Sperm can fertilize an ovum for about 72 hours after ejaculation. So, assuming that you ovulated on the 25th or 26th, sex on the 24th or the 25th or 26th could have caused your pregnancy.

    Either of the guys can be the father. Only a DNA test will be able to identify which one.

    I hope this helps.

    To add, that if you end up being pregnant with fraternal twins both men could be the fathers.

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