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  • Jun 16, 2012, 12:00 AM
    Help2010789
    Am I pregnant I need to know and I don't want to tell my Moma because I'm 16
    Can someone help me I don't know if I'm pregnant or not my last period was may 29th too June 1st and me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex June 1st my menstrual usually last about 3 too 4 days could I be pregnant?
  • Jun 16, 2012, 12:07 AM
    Curlyben
    There is NO way of telling at this point and you will have to wait for your next cycle.
    If you don't want to give your mother THAT sort of news, STOP having sex with your boyfriend, protected, unprotected or whatever.
    Are you prepared to be a teenage mother yourself?
  • Jun 16, 2012, 12:10 AM
    Help2010789
    Idk when my next cycle is I'm irregular and yes I am ready if I have too be
  • Jun 16, 2012, 12:12 AM
    Curlyben
    Well you are in for a long and stressful wait them, I'm afraid..
    I suggest you consider what you are going to tell your mother when you are expecting..
  • Jun 16, 2012, 12:13 AM
    Help2010789
    Thanks
  • Jun 16, 2012, 12:19 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Help2010789 View Post
    Idk when my next cycle is I'm irregular and yes I am ready if I have too be

    I'm sorry, but as has been said, you are going to have to wait it out.

    Now, you say you are ready right? Do you have a full time job making over $15 an hour? How about your boyfriend. What are you going to do when he walks away from you and makes you an unwed teen mother?

    I know, you are very mature for your age. Right?
  • Jun 16, 2012, 12:28 AM
    Help2010789
    Well actually I have a part time job during school and a full time job during the summer and my boyfriend does as well also I have a paid off car and if my boyfriend leaves me iknow me and the "maybe" baby will do just fine I'm sure of it and yes I'm very mature for my age
  • Jun 16, 2012, 04:07 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    So why scared to tell mom, just tell her how grow up you are, and that you and your boyfiend are having sex and you may be pregnant.

    If you are too scared to talk to mom about it, you are not old enough to have a baby yet.
  • Jun 16, 2012, 04:53 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Help2010789 View Post
    Well actually I have a part time job during school and a full time job during the summer and my boyfriend does as well also I have a paid off car and if my boyfriend leaves me iknow me and the "maybe" baby will do just fine I'm sure of it and yes I'm very mature for my age

    Yeah real mature, if you think you will "do just fine". I read a study yesterday that estimated a couple will spend over $230,000 to raise a child until age 18. So that doesn't even consider college. Nor does it consider the expenses of birth

    It will cost upwards of $15K for the first year, plus medical expenses during your pregnancy.

    So what do you take home a week, $100, $150? What will you earn for the summer? Maybe $3K? You are dreaming.

    If you were really mature you would go to your parents and tell them you were sexually active and ask that you be put on birth control.

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