My boyfriend and I had an argument and haven't spoken to each other in about two weeks. I ran into him and he was in the company of a female that wasn't very attractive. So my question is was she just a quick fling to make me jealous or could he have feelings for this hideous creature?

I can't possibly know that, but:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and beauty is only skin deep, it's what is on the inside that counts.
A bit cliché, yes, but true.
I'd rather hang with people because of WHO they are not what they look like.

Considering that your attitude is the way it is, have you considered that maybe she is nicer, and maybe even more interesting? There are more than looks than man are interested in. I would appreciate an average looking girl with something good to say than a gorgeous girl with nothing but BS coming out of her mouth.

Chances are she looked at him, looked at you and said, "You used to date HER?"

Your post speaks volumes about you --- and I don't mean how much more gorgeous you are, either!
And it's not hard to see what he might see in this "hideous creature" compared to you.

Maybe if you invest in your personality and self esteem you won't have to put others down in order to feel good about yourself, and maybe you'll feel strong about yourself (FOR REAL) and find someone who wants to actually spend time with you.

I agree with everyone else. You may find this girl to be unattractive, but I've met people that aren't much to look at, but once you know them, and their personality, they're the most beautiful people on the Earth. Then there are people like you. You may be pretty on the outside, but your attitude stinks, and it does shine through. I'm sure that once someone gets to know you, you're not pretty at all. You become the "hideous creature".

Maybe he wants someone that's pretty through and through, and not just a pretty face with a horrible disposition.

You don't even know if they were on a date or not? She could be a relative, a co-worker, the boss's daughter or wife, or someone who asked for directions and he was going her way.

That's just for starters. The fact that she went from being unattractive (in your eyes!) to a 'hideous creature' says a lot about how you handle your own jealousy. The fact that you assumed that he might be with someone for the sole purpose of having an effect on you speaks to a serious need to get a new outlook on your relationship to him.

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Originally Posted by carra30car

So my question is was she just a quick fling to make me jealous or could he have feelings for this hideous creature?

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I'm actually speechless!

Honey, you are the hideous creature with an attitude like this.

Why would you assume he is making you jealous, since you just ran into him, and why would you assume she is not a beautiful person because of her looks?

Why would you assume that they were romantically linked in the first place? You assume a lot.

It is called he moved on, and looks is not what is important, personality is.
** assuming she was really not good looking,

Go to Walmart if you have one near you, look at the 400 lb men with their crack showing with model looking women, Look at the men with women that have scared faces or facial hair. Or what ever you don't like.

You don't date because of looks, ( if you do, then you are very shallow) ** as it sounds in your post

The fact that somebody was willing to have a relationship with somebody with an attitude like yours means that there is hope for happiness for us all! Jeez...

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Originally Posted by mearbhall

The fact that somebody was willing to have a relationship with somebody with an attitude like yours means that there is hope for happiness for us all! Jeez...

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My laugh of the day! Great!