My mom had me at 19 and left my bio dad cause he was an alcoholic and a drugie. I have a court order agenst him and he would not sign my birth certific or anything else but when I was 2-3 months old he planned to kidnap me. I want to meet him but should I my mom said its OK but should I

Why do you have a court order against him and how old are you? You?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Why do you have a court order against him and how old are you? you?

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I have a court order cause he hurt my mother when she was pregnant with me and he went to jail, I was only a baby but the court order ends when I turn 18 but I'm allowed to meet him as long as my moms there but she doesn't want to help me find him

If you want to find him, do it. But be aware that he may not want to meet you.
It is not so much a matter of should you, but do you want to.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If you want to find him, do it. But be aware that he may not want to meet you.
It is not so much a matter of should you, but do you want to.

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OK thanks

Good luck.