I am a lesbian single I have just started this new job and have meet this amazing women she married and has children.. And I told her I am very fond of her and am now having feeling for her she said she not like that not interested but than she would give me mixed messages I really honestly don't think she sure... HELP what do I do...

Two words: Don't touch!

First off, she's married, with kids, and obviously very confused (a very bad combination).

Second. Let me tell you why, she's giving you mixed messages. On the one hand, she can see how a new relationship could be good (exciting, dreamy, wonderful, etc.). But, when she really considers the reality of what she's thinking of doing (cheating) and it's most likely result (divorce/separation/child custody), she changes her mind.

Just think about it for a minute from her point of view. Getting romantically involved with you (or someone else) could actually cost her a marriage and the custody of her children. For any parent, that is a scary thought.

Besides that, do you really want to get involved with someone who IS married? That is a really messy business that affects not only you and her, but her spouse and her children. And don't forget the bad karma.

In all honesty, she is probably just looking for a way to escape the responsibilities of her day to day life. If she were really interested in you, there would be no mixed messages. If I were you, I'd walk away while I still could or just keep it strictly platonic.

TT

Leave married people alone, END OF STORY!!