There is a girl I like and we are both 13 and she likes me but we decided to stay friends. So her friend and herself went to a party and her friend texts me telling me she got drunk and she just found her having sex.How am I supposed to be OK with that I'm freaking out!

I wouldn't be okay about it either, and would seriously leave her alone if she has so little self respect. Tell her you don't need drunk friends who do such things.

Wow, she's in for a world of hurt. She's 13, drinking, and having sex. Who needs that?

I would seriously re-evaluate your feelings for her. She's not girlfriend material.

WHERE ARE THE PARENTS??

Where are the parents that would allow a party in their home where liquor was available? Not only available? But in sufficient quantities to get someone drunk? In many places the homeowner could be arrested for that. And whoever she had sex with committed rape. At 13 she is under the age of consent. Even if she wasn't drunk, it would have been illegal. People who allow such things to happen in their home need to be arrested.

Where are the parents that would allow their 13 year old to go to a party that was so unsupervised?

And are you sure of the "friend"? Could she be trying to freak you out?

And at 13, you are kind of young to be interested in a girl as anything more than a friend.

The way I see it you have two choices. After you have confirmed what happened, you either disassociate yourself from this girl because any 13 yr old that gets that drunk is heading for a bad end. Or you try and help her. Make sure this was a one time mistake (which would involve letting her parents know what happened.

Yes I would be concerned 13, going to parties where they are drinking, getting drunk and also having sex.

So what are you going to do?

... I honestly don't know who to believe her Friend use to like me I don't know if she is just lying to me or what but I talked to the girl I liked she said she shouldn't have gone P.S she and her friend snuck into her other friends party where I was told she was raped the point is I been friends with this girl for like 2 years and this happens...

The parents... her dad raped her he is in jail and her mom consantly yells at her I really don't blame her for drinking.but I want to find the son of a bi*ch who raped her and beat the out of him

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Originally Posted by taytay556655

the parents...........her dad raped her he is in jail and her mom consantly yells at her i really dont blame her for drinking.but i wanna find the son of a bi*ch who raped her and beat the outta him

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No you don't. She needs to go to the police and report it. Hopefully its not too late and some evidence that she had sex with him can be shown. Remember, she is underage so it doesn't matter whether she consented or not, it just needs to show that sex happened.

The best thing you can do for this girl is to encourage her to go to the police. You can't take the law into your own hands.