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  • Jun 13, 2012, 09:59 PM
    Scryo117
    My girlfriend just "doesn't feel like answering"
    School let out last week and my girlfriend left for a week long vacation. The day she left she didn't answer my texts... so I gave her some space. I tried again once every day she gets back tomorrow but then I leave for a week!!
  • Jun 13, 2012, 10:20 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Did you two have a fight or something before she left?
    Only she can give you an explanation.
  • Jun 13, 2012, 10:33 PM
    Scryo117
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Did you two have a fight or something before she left?
    Only she can give you an explanation.

    We didn't have a fight or anything. It's just that she got out of an abusive relationship and was contemplating suicide... probably should have said that in the description.
  • Jun 13, 2012, 10:36 PM
    Homegirl 50
    So you are the rebound boyfriend.
    Only she can tell you what's up. Maybe she just wants to be alone.
    Was she traveling with her parents?
  • Jun 13, 2012, 11:19 PM
    Scryo117
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    So you are the rebound boyfriend.
    Only she can tell you what's up. Maybe she just wants to be alone.
    Was she traveling with her parents?

    No
  • Jun 13, 2012, 11:26 PM
    Scryo117
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Scryo117 View Post
    No

    No she isn't with her parents she is with her 24 year old cousin they aren't very close... I love my girlfriend and she loves me we have a bond but she shuts me out some times I know I must give her room but I desperately want to help her and this whole thing is tearing me apart inside but she doesn't even answer me(sorry for no periods really got into it)
  • Jun 14, 2012, 07:13 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Then maybe you need to talk to her when you get back. Stop trying to call her, and then tell her you cannot continue in the relationship the way she shuts you out.
    Maybe when you are healed from this you two can be friends. Maybe dating was not the right thing for you two.

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