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All 85 of his friends are his exes or girls he has slept with. He has told me about them and sometimes I don't like it... I have deleted him from FB, we Skype cause he is in Jamaica. I'm so overwhelmed by all this I don't know what to do. 30% have tattoos with his name and last name one girl has two!! They all still call and beg for him back and post on his wall. He has offered me all his passwords too. I'm engaged to this man. I'm so stressed I don't eat anymore LORD I'M ALL THE WAY IN SOUTH AFRICA!! Help