I broke up with my boyfriend today after like a month, why should I feel bad its not like we were together forever and the only thing we did was makeout. I don't know what to do. When I broke up with him all he said was OK and walked away. I know he's hurt.

Leave him alone, for his sake let him heal properly, you already did the damage, damage that you cannot undo, next time be more careful in picking partners so that you don't go around breaking hearts everywhere. I will warn you that continue to talk to him will only make things worse, especially for him, so unless you want to torture him, you need to back off.

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Leave him alone, for his sake let him heal properly, you already did the damage, damage that you cannot undo, next time be more careful in picking partners so that you don't go around breaking hearts everywhere. I will warn you that continue to talk to him will only make things worse, especially for him, so unless you want to torture him, you need to back off.

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Thank you. That actually helped but would it be a good idea to just make sure he's OK and what if he told my friend he kind of loved me? Does that make it worse

He does not matter what he has told your friend. Leave him alone and let him heal.
It would not be a good idea to contact him for any reason

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

He does not matter what he has told your friend. Leave him alone and let him heal.
It would not be a good idea to contact him for any reason

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What if I started to love him too? I just want to know he's okay

You left him. He functions. He is OK. He is not crying and begging you to take him back, He is OK.
Leave him alone.
I think the problem is, you are having regrets. That is too bad, don't be reopening his wound.

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You left him. He functions. He is OK. He is not crying and begging you to take him back, He is OK.
Leave him alone.
I think the problem is, you are having regrets. That is too bad, don't be reopening his wound.

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I do kind of regret it. But I don't want him back because then I would get a bunch of crap from my friends and it would make me look stupid. And thank you for helping me. It has helped :) I actually really like this website. But should I let him come to me first if he wants to talk about it. Cause I still want to be friends cause we were never really friends from the start..

You broke up with him. If he wants to talk to you, let him make the move. Otherwise leave him alone.

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You broke up with him. If he wants to talk to you, let him make the move. Otherwise leave him alone.

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Thank you! What are some things I could do to get my mind off him.

It's summer, hang out with your friends, if one of them want to talk about him, don't do it.
Just go about your life.

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It's summer, hang out with your friends, if one of them want to talk about him, don't do it.
Just go about your life.

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Im hanging out with my friends later thank you!

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Im hanging out with my friends later thankyou!

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You're welcome

Well my boyfriend and I want to makeout when we hangout. Well we hung out yesterday and nothing happened. He has never made out with anybody so maybe he's just nervous. Who should make the first move. Should I make the first move. And how should I make the first move? What should I do?

How old is he? How old are you? My response will depend on your answer. Please be honest.

Is this a new boyfriend, different from the one in your last thread?

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Seems like all you do is make out with guys. Maybe it's time to slow things down a bit.

Nooooo. We got back together. We worked things out my boyfriend is 14 and so am I. and he told me he wanted to makeout with me but I think he's nervous.

It's the same guy? Then you have to get your story straight because you've posted conflicting things.

In this thread you stated;

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He has never made out with anybody so maybe he's just nervous.

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In your previous thread you said;

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its not like we were together forever and the only thing we did was makeout.

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Which is it?

I lied it's the same boyfriend. Please just help!

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I lied its the same boyfriend. Please just help!

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I cannot give sexually based advice to a child, and you are a child. Like it or not, making out is a sexual thing, and I cannot, and will not, tell a child how to get someone to make a sexual move on her.

Sorry, but that's not something I can help you with.

Good luck, and play safe.

Girl you need to hang out with your girl friends and stay away from boys. You don't know who you want and you are too young to be making out, especially if you don't even know what you're doing.
If you are going to ask questions, at least be honest and keep your questions in the same place.