As a child I was molested by two family members. One was my older brother and the other was my cousin. I never told anyone and my molesters didn't know about each other. My brother (after several teen years struggling with bi polar) is now a police officer with 3 small daughters. My cousin lives in my grandmothers house and has done nothing with his life. My fear is that my silence is enabling either one to continue to hurt little girls. I feel strongly that my cousin is still a threat and Ive been thinking of writing a letter to the sheriffs office so they can monitor him. But as far as my brother goes, I'm very torn. This would ruin his career and his family but if he is hurting my nieces and I didn't do anything... I couldn't live with that. I have no one I can talk to about this, please advise.