My husband has been having a meaningless sex fling for 2 yrs with some woman I have to see on a regular. I want this home wrecker out the picture I hate her.A lot of people have stop speaking to her cause of this.I have si many people giving her the cold shoulders. She can't even look me in the eyes.He don't care about her.We run errands together like a real family.We are so happy right now that everyone sees us as the perfect couple.What could I do to get rid of this 2 yr sex buddy?

Get a divorce, you don't seem to put any blame on your hubby, so if he was having a fling with someone you don't know it would be OK

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Get a divorce, you don't seem to put any blame on your hubby, so if he was having a fling with someone you don't know it would be ok

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But it's her he wouldn't sleep with her if she didn't throw herself at him.

I think you are in denial that your husband is a cheater.
So she may be throwing herself, but he is catching.
So many women wouldn't put up with this, I know I wouldn't.

Your husband is the one you should be mad at. If he wanted to stop having sex with this woman he would. Your and your friends anger should be at him. He is the one who made vows to you, not her. I'm assuming that he is not a hormonal teenage boy. He can say no if and when he wants to, but why should he? He cheats and you allow it. You just get mad at the woman.

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Originally Posted by lisa1471

But it's her he wouldn't sleep with her if she didn't throw herself at him.

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Your husband has you conditioned to his liking. I think you are beyond the reach of the advice we can provide.

I hope your marriage works out.

Peace!

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Originally Posted by lisa1471

But it's her he wouldn't sleep with her if she didn't throw herself at him.

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She's probably stop "throwing "herself at him if he demanded she do it. If he acted like a married man and said "no more" He obviously does not want to do that.