My best friend and his girlfriend broke up again for the 2nd time this year. I've had a lot of feelings for him since I first met him. We've been messing around and talking "dirty" to each other and he recently told me he actually wants to sleep with me. I want to but I'm really scared. Will he stop being my friend after or is he just using me. Please I need help with this.

There are more important things for you to consider. Are you ready to be a mother? Is he ready to be a father? Will he stand up and support your child if you become pregnant?

Sex is not recreation. Its something to be shared between people in a long term committed relationship. No one should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are fully prepared to have a child.

Don't do it, and stop with all the sex talk, etc. if you want to keep him as a best friend. If you do have sex with him, figure he probably won't stick around for long. I see lose-lose-lose all over the place, depending on how maturely you handle this.

He said he wants to sleep with you, not date you. That should tell you something.