I was taking a girl out to a concert, we met at a bar beforehand. We were meeting at 6:30. She arrived earlier and when I arrived she was taliking to another guy already. We had drinks and she kept the conversation going on with the other guy. I did not want to react. This was quite embarrassing. But it gets worse. I told her let's leave and get a cab now to the concert. And before we left she actually asked for the guys number. I did not want to cause a scene as I think it would demonstrate weakness so I decided to play it cool.

Anyway after the date I wanted to further contact with her. She calls or emails me once a month wanting to meet out. I just ignore her requests.

I did like her a lot but she humiliated me that night. Should I just keep the current course. She has never apologized.

Any thoughts?

I would go out with her, and I would also have a few more that I would go out with. Welcome to the world of modern dating. Isn't that what being young single and free is about? Exploring, and experimenting.

But if you feel disrespected, and humiliated, have no more to do with her, and explore and experiment elsewhere.

She was definitely wrong to do that to you. Whether you guys were exclusive or not, that was just plain disrespectful to talk to and take that guys number while you were right there.

If it was me, I would tell her this and then be done with her.

By dating rules she was wrong, but then there is nothing wrong with dating two or three people at a time till things start to move in one.

So if you want to still see her, do it.

Thanks Odin!
I agree with you
This is why I have had no further contact with her.
It was only the third date we had and the last
Her behavior was so rude
She really got over on me.
I appreciate the other responses but it is not a simple matter of just dating
It is nasty behavior and no one should do that to anyone.
I am going to continue ignoring her
And the next time she tries and contact me I am going to tell her to get Lost!

She was not interested in me
I get that
Why did she have to accept the date
I wish she would have just stood me up instead of disrespecting me right in front of my face
I am glad I kept my cool but it was not easy.

This girl has no etiquette. I wasn't a very nice girl when I was younger, but even I never flirted with someone else when I was on a date! That's just not something you do.

I hope she paid for her own concert ticket.

Personally, I'd write her, but I'd be a bit nasty. I'd say "why are you emailing me? Call the guy you met on our date, I'm sure he'd be more than happy to take you out". But, the better advice would be to just continue ignoring her. I'm just vindictive, I'd want the last word. ;)