Well I been going out with my girlfriend for three years we basically lost our virginity to each other. We have broking up the first time because she said that I wasn't taking my life serious and she can't take it no more. After that after I left her alone we start seening each other again slowly and things were great. So we are in college now and things were good no bad stuff happening after the semester finish then she started acting different. Says we need a break from each other so at first I didn't like it but I said sure then durning the break she hit me up and check on me. So after that I ask her how she feeling about the break she said she not feeling the relationship any more. And I called her told her about her self in a nice way and told her how much I care for her and she was quite and crying and I ask her if she love me and she couldn't answer me and saying why I got to go there. And after that she with her friends and started acting kind of rude to me saying she not sure if she don't want to see me and everything and even ignore my texts and don't reply late or just don't. What should I do I really love her but don't.

You leave her alone. It looks like there is nothing there as far as she is concerned so you may as well accept it and move on.

But I broke up with her I told her we should be friends and we need to be that first if we want to get anywhere and then we can started going place but I told her right now I want us to be cool I told her I still care for for her and throughout the whole conversation she was quite and a little shocked that I was saying this and said she was kind of thinking the samething and I told her if she would ever see me again and said she don't know and I told her whenever she ready give me a call and I gave her a promise ring and I ask her if she still have it and she said yeah and I ask if she wearing it she told me she don't know if she wearing it and I told her okay cool and she ask me why and I told her no reason. And I told her bye and it look like she had to hear me a couple time before she know I was really serious you think would she ever want to see me or give me a call?

I don't know but I don't think you should sit around waiting. Get on with your life.

Oops! You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Homegirl 50 again.

Homegirl 50 is right, and don't become friends with her, seriously it's only going to make moving on twice as difficult. Go no contact with her forever and start moving on with your life. Who cares why or what happened just move on, there's plenty of fish in the sea my friend.