My wife befriended another woman a few years ago. For eight years they have been attending a festival together. When this lady comes to our town my wife meets her for dinner and they go back to her motel room for a few hours. I have told my wife that I think this woman is very butch(lesbian) and my grown daughters have told her the same. I am sitting here going crazy because my wife is in another city for a week staying with this woman and she thinks I am stupid. What are your thoughts. Am I crazy.