My Boyfriend Wants a Separation
Me and my boyfriend used to live in his condo. I'm 18 and he's 21. I'm a new college student and he's graduating. He got delayed because even we're not on the same house he skipped class already. And when I decided to live in his condo it got worst. Both of us forget about school we just enjoy each other company. I fell in love so much because he did everything just for me. He treated me like a princess. Until this time came, it's like I'm looking for new things to happen. And he said he don't know how. And we keep on arguing. He lied, he don't listen to me. He got mad all the time even sex got less. If before we do it more times a day. Now its 3x a week.
His attitude changed. Maybe because I keep on complaining and accusing him. But accusing him is like a way for him to say no that's not true you're the most beautiful or the only one I love. Haha! But he doesn't get it that way. My trust with him is broken even before we celebrate our 1st anniversary. Ex Issues, but we still continue our journey together. And try to fix this relationship. But at times goes by it's like it's getting worst and worst.
Until he told me that he's younger brother is going to live in condo too. He said I still can stay. Nothing will change. Until this time came. His friends finished their course and passed the board exam. And then one of his friend invited him to a party or 'despidida' because he's friend is leaving will do his master in Hong Kong (I'm not sure). So I allow him to go to the party even though I really don't want to. Because his last ex before me is there and I think she's still want my boyfriend even though she don't want my boyfriend anymore it still bothers me because I hate that girl so much! When me and my boyfriend are celebrating our first monthaversary she's there and ruin the day.
Anyway back to the topic, and then he goes to the party. He said he'll be going home early because we will meet at 10. But when I called him he doesn't listen to me. He said he wants to sleep and it's like he never really cares whatever I am saying. So I got mad and just let him. After that when he came home, he said I can't stay anymore in the condo. He wants to focus on his studies. He said he wants to graduate just like his friends. And I'll be just a distraction for him and for his brother. I still can, but sometimes only.. What should I do? And what do you think happened to us? Thanks for the time.
My boyfriend is always Mad.
Me and my boyfriend used to be the sweetest couple. But one day it just changed. We fight a lot. Like everyday. And there this time he lied to me about his ex on how he get his ex number. I don't trust him anymore for many reasons. About that ex number is one of the reason, the other is, a week after my miscarriage, he and his other ex is saying some sweet things on Facebook chat I just discover it 5 months after that. And he just said its like nothing they are just friends. And many more reason.
So when sometimes he said he'll go out with friends sometimes I ask him if he is really with his friends not with other girls. And when he replied late I ask why? He always get mad. He said its just a reflex because he already knew were going to fight. I don't know if it was true? Or maybe he's just guilty? What do you think?
