My fiancé don't like to talk on phone.
Hi, I am engaged and after my marriage I have to give certain exams to get a job, but as my fiancé is not very regular on phones or try to ignore me, I am not able to study that well most of the time I don't like to study when he doesn't talk to me, I start taking everything negatively and practically I know it's very necessary for me to study.
My fiancé says he loves me a lot but he has a very casual attitude for me, he is not at all interested in talking on phones and texting me. And if I do then it's not necessary he will answer them and we can't meet also as we are both in different countries. I feel hurt most of the times because of his behavior... now sometimes I don't like to call him or text him or talk to him when he calls...
Please suggest something. I love him because his thought process is good but sometimes it really hurts that he doesn't care for me, he will not answer my call even if he knows I am worried for him. And the only reason he gives is that he likes to talk face to face...
I have tried many things so that he improves a little but no use. I tried writing letters, told him verbally; even I reduced my phone calls, texts etc...
Please suggest something.
Thanks