My girlfriend and I have been together for over 5 years now. We bought a house 3 years ago. She moved back in with her parents 6 weeks ago. We have had very limited contact. I never cheated, called her any bad names, assaulted her or anything detrimental. I still live in the house alone. I feel lonely every night at bedtime and in the morning. She told me she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. I do confused by this. I did everything for her. Got her up for work, made her lunch, did laundry, did housecleaning, complimented her and told her I lived her everyday. There was nothing bad that happened in our time together. I sometimes wish there was then I could justify this in my mind. Went on vacations went out for dinner at least once a week. I never controlled her with family and friends. What an I missing?? Signed so heartbroken :(

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Originally Posted by ChiSox35

My girlfriend and I have been together for over 5 years now. We bought a house 3 years ago. She moved back in with her parents 6 weeks ago. We have had very limited contact. I never cheated, called her any bad names, assaulted her or anything detrimental. I still live in the house alone. I feel lonely every night at bedtime and in the morning. She told me she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. I do confused by this. I did everything for her. Got her up for work, made her lunch, did laundry, did housecleaning, complimented her and told her I lived her everyday. There was nothing bad that happened in our time together. I sometimes wish there was then I could justify this in my mind. Went on vacations went out for dinner at least once a week. I never controlled her with family and friends. What an I missing??? Signed so heartbroken :(

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Well... resolve the house issue... such as get her name off it somehow... now before the economy improves and its value goes up... when that happens being part owner she will have rights to a share of the increased value.. and might even force a partition sale to get it.

As far as she goes... she made it clear... she's over you... donesn't matter why... doesn't even have to be a reason for it... people fall out of love with others every day... it happens... you move one.