Hey , me and my boyfriend hug and hold hands and kiss what else can we do instead of sex ?
I'm not ready and well even if I was there no private place to do it.

Crossword puzzles, board games, jigsaw puzzles, study ahead for school, practice times tables, do extra chores together for your parents like yardwork and indoor cleaning, read a book out loud while taking turns per chapter, card games like Authors or Old Maid. If you need more ideas, let me know.

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Crossword puzzles, board games, jigsaw puzzles, study ahead for school, practice times tables, do extra chores together for your parents like yardwork and indoor cleaning, read a book out loud while taking turns per chapter, card games like Authors or Old Maid. If you need more ideas, let me know.

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We are 14 that is for 7 year olds what the heck

video games, ( WII is great for two to play) just spend time talking, helping each other with work around the others home.

Same thing any couple does, you live real life and enjoy the time you share.

Why are you looking for other things to do besides holding hands, kissing and hugging? There is nothing else to do for 14 year olds, except games, movies, popcorn. What??

Play some music together (eg piano duets, or different instruments), you could even videotape your performances and upload to YouTube. Do some cooking for you mum. Learn something new such as health info (how to eat healthy, healthy lifestyle). Or even try to grow some vegies in the backyard (some are really easy to grow, such as pumpkin and beetroot, depending on where you live). Go to the gym together. Go jogging together.
I know it is so sweet for a girlfriend and boyfriend to stay together. Best of luck!

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Originally Posted by Help-meplease

We are 14 that is for 7 year olds

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Did you do it when you were 7? Do you both know your times tables, at the snap of a finger? I DARE you to play checkers or board games together! You two need to do shared productive and fun activities in order to learn how to work and play together. Ask your parents what thy did when they were 14.

I can GUARANTEE at 14 your parents weren't even thinking about relationships. They were too busy enjoying their childhood. You should too.

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Why are you looking for other things to do besides holding hands, kissing and hugging? There is nothing else to do for 14 year olds, except games, movies, popcorn. WTF????

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Yes I agree What!!

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Originally Posted by tickle

Yes I agree WTF!!!!

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I don't mean anything to do with sex just like other kissing techniques and hugging and anything non sexual

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Originally Posted by Help-meplease

I don't mean anything to do with sex just like other kissing techniques and hugging and anything non sexual

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Last time I checked there was a lot of non sexual activities given. Kissing is a sexual activity sweetheart.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

Last time I checked there was a lot of non sexual activities given. Kissing is a sexual activity sweetheart.

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Oh no! Mr CObra! I won't get pregnant from that, will I?

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Originally Posted by Help-meplease

I don't mean anything to do with sex just like other kissing techniques and hugging and anything non sexual

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Hello Youngster:

ANYTHING you do that involves TOUCHING, IS sexual, and will lead you to the same place.

excon

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Originally Posted by tickle

Oh no! Mr CObra!! I won't get pregnant from that, will I?

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Well, you may have a 0.0001% chance, if my statistics are correct, to get pregnant from kissing. [/sarcasm]

My suggestion would be going to summer school together with a hope that OP will learn to be able to communicate using proper English.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

Well, you may have a 0.0001% chance, if my statistics are correct, to get pregnant from kissing. [/sarcasm]

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Scientifically speaking, getting pregnant from just kissing is NOT possible. But some young people have this belief.

http://ehealthforum.com/health/kissi...2994-a1.html#b

Doing a simple Google search would turn up numerous interesting reading.

Regards

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

My suggestion would be going to summer school together with a hope that OP will learn to be able to communicate using proper English.

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No such thing as summer school in nz plus it's winter At the moment

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No such thing as summer school in nz plus it's winter At the moment

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Then my suggestion is to spend more time in the classroom and less time with your friends with the same goal in mind.

Well if your still young don't have it... wait until you are older. Maybe kissing and such would be better for you. If he wants to have sex and you don't, you have the right to say no I do not want to. Then he will probably be chill about it... I mean depending on who he is. Why don't you go bowling or do something fun... don't push it... you have a life to live... wait for sex...

Consequences of sex:
1. Your parents could find out
2. You could get diseases
3. You might get pregnant and depending if you are young or not he will probably leave you and you won't be able to handle the baby and then you will have to live with your parents until college and then in college you will have to get a full time nanny and you will have to pay the nanny with money you probably don't have and you won't be forgiven...

Advantages:
1. Well when your older you may be happy when the stork drops off your baby :P
2. You will have money to take care of the baby and own your own house
3. You will live happy
4. Your parents and friends will not think you're a crazy girl...

Hope this helps...
-Superman :P

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Then my suggestion is to spend more time in the classroom and less time with your friends with the same goal in mind.

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Um I spend more time in class because I need to pass ncea
And friends are all backstabbing es