I am a mother of a 29-year-old son, he has a habit of pushing me and of the rest of his family away. I don't know what to do. This happens every time he is dumped by a woman who he has dated. This happened three time already in the last two years. He gets so emotionally attached to these women and in return they end up breaking his heart. This last woman who dumped him is someone who we currently works with and he took this last one really hard; the other two he met on the internet.

He says this woman is the only one that ever looked him in that certain way, she would look at him, my son would see the stair, then she would blush and quickly look away. Seems obviously she liked him and she would laugh at all his stupid jokes. My son is obese, so he does not get that many looks from women and that is why he feel for her so hard, cause it met a lot to him. They dated for a while, then suddenly she breaks up with him and I don't see how my son will ever get over this one.

As of now she refuses to talk to him, but son says that he can see her pupils dilate when she looks at him, the last time he attempted to talk to her, her face turned bright red and blushing, but at the same time she was telling him go away and leave her alone.

I just don't know what to do here. I wish son would move so he can happy, cause every time he gets pushed away by someone he cares about deeply, he ends me and my family away. I also end up getting hurt in this process, in fact he refused to see us on mother's day and I am afraid this will happen on father's day too. I wish I knew if there was something I can do to help him.

There's nothing you can really do to help him, other than talk to him and explain that girls come and go. He needs to learn to move on and get over woman on his own. You can do your part by trying to help him see this, but the rest is on his shoulders to overcome and proceed. To look forward to the future, and forget the past.