I and by boyfriend are together from around 1 year n 4 months,but now he has left me.he says the reason is that because of me he has got down in his studies,he indirectly blames me that I am d reason he got less marks,and recently my bro and sis had got to know about our love and they were not okay with it. Once when my bofriend had coled me, I wasn't at home and at that tym my bro and sis had scolded him badly.my love says that this is also one reason he left me.but d fact is I really really love him, from d day he left me, I am going mad and reaching abnormalities.though its not my mistake he has ditched me, but I can't live without him. In that 1 year and four months, he loved me sooo much, we always used to enjoy in class,tok on phn and chat on Facebook all day and night.we both had promised never to leave each other's hand . We were very sure about our dreams and plans of future, I had not even dreamt that he would leave me one day, and aftr sum 8 months he's going to leave d city and go sumwer else for his later education. He says letz be friendly and as usual, letz not make these 8 months sad... but I can't be friends and all, I really love him and am ready to do anytg to get him back,I keep crying from morning till evening,cut my wrist,act lik mad... I donno what to do, but I want him back... he says dnot cry bt he nvr speaks of love again... I donno what to do,please anyone help me.. plz

Proper grammar and punctuation would have helped, but from what I can gather, he's left you and you can't get over it. Well sweetheart, you're going to have to. It's hard but sometimes things just don't work out and that's life. Cutting yourself and crying won't make anything better, actually it will just make it worse. Work on forgetting him, and avoid all contact with him, then go out, be with your friends, go try some things you never got the chance to. Eventually you will move on, and find someone better.

Best of luck.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

Proper grammar and punctuation would have helped, but from what I can gather, he's left you and you can't get over it. Well sweetheart, you're going to have to. It's hard but sometimes things just don't work out and that's life. Cutting yourself and crying won't make anything better, actually it will just make it worse. Work on forgetting him, and avoid all contact with him, then go out, be with your friends, go try some things you never got the chance to. Eventually you will move on, and find someone better.

Best of luck.

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Thanks.. thanks a lot , but recently he told me that he'll come back to me after he completes his education, he had sent me a message lik that including a heart smiley.and in class, we both still look at each other, but we don't know what to talk... I know he still has feelings for me, his friends told me... I am ready to wait till he reaches his goals,. so , is it all okay now?