Okay I know its normal and all but Please help I'm 22 and my boyfriend wants to preform oral on me for the first time, I'v never ever done it with anyone I'v always thought of a way to get out of it, but I kind of want to try it and so does he but my labia is large I was thinking of like tucking them in and gluing them or something I really need to hide them, is there any way to hide or make them look smaller when getting oral!

Why do think your labia look different from anyone else's? And why is "large" a problem?

There is nothing you can do about it. So relax and enjoy. I sincerely doubt that he will make any comment.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Why do think your labia look different from anyone else's? And why is "large" a problem?

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I'v seen girls in porn and they look so perfect and I don't know what he's going to think, most guys I'v asked said the prefer small labia so I'm kind of worried

You boyfriend is not going to drop you over the size of your labia. If he does, he's not worth keeping anyway.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

You boyfriend is not going to drop you over the size of your labia. If he does, he's not worth keeping anyway.

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Thanks :)

This is silly... he won't care... why would he? As it turns out, he may even like it.

Men generally don't care. Anyone that does or gives you a hard time isn't worth your time. Honestly it is just a treat to be allowed down there. :-)

Listen.. they are what they are... and its hard to find two women that look alike there. Consider it like snowflakes.

And incidentally... and a lot of guys will agree with me... I like large labia... more to have fun with when I'm down there.

Just as penises come in all shapes and sizes... if you're not complaining about his why should he complain about you. And seeing that most men have years of experience watching adult films, they have most likely seen all kinds already. You tucking them away would not work, as they will un-tuck as he performs oral on you. And gluing... now, that would freak him much much more. Just be yourself. Have a good one.

Hello M:

I once knew a girl named Laurie, who had lusciously large labia. She met a guy named Larry who liked licking her lascivious looking labia, and with a lotta lubrication, he could last, and last and last.

I think I'm going to "L".

excon

GLUE?
If I were to sit down and write a list of all the parts of me that I would change to look good, the planet would run out of trees to make the paper and pencils, the graphite mines would be depleted, the earth will have fallen into the sun by the time I am done, and the Milky Way will have collided with Andromeda.

Hi, you shouldn't be ashamed of having a large labia, just act normal, do it, enjoy doing it with him, and don't give a about it, because if you hide it this time later on he will know about that and it will make a huge problem between you and him, Enjoy :)

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Originally Posted by Alaa1990

Hi, you shouldnt be ashamed of having a large labia, just act normal, do it, enjoy doing it with him, and dont give a about it, because if you hide it this time later on he will know about that and it will make a huge problem between you and him, Enjoy :)

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Hide your labia from the person you are having sex with? How?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Hide your labia from the person you are having sex with? How?

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With a disguise... like a mustache and a wig!

I myself have large labia and I love them. First off, they protect your well making you more sensitive and orgasms stronger. Second, no matter what size the man is you can always use the labia to hold him in or pull him in further thus adding to both of your pleasure. Thirdly, I hold moisture better so I rarely need lubrication and lastly, men love to "pound" a woman and the lips make this possible for longer periods so not only is he having a great time but you can enjoy the "pounding" too. Try masterbating with pressure not fingering and just make sure you take extra care with cleaning esp. around the and to rinse well. I love my large labia and have learned to use them to my advantage. Trust me, most men love them.