Been with him 2 yrs, never had an trust issues, he is step dad to my 7 yr old. Found explicit text to a girly used to know it was dated back to June 11 just as we started an 8 months long distance, we wer rock solid and I trusted him with my life, it too me 5 months to let him meet my little girl, but we were planning on relocating to live with him which we have been here 6 months, he always left his fone open m never had secrets until yesterday I looked through fone and seen this message to her saying Wat they used to do to each other, there was also a named message from some other girl who he to be fair didn't reply to , he said he doesn't remember txtin the other one n She's. And oz now and hasn't had contact since. I now have my cases packed he's pleading and begging that he's never done it before are since but I don't no Wat to do . Some advice would really be appreciated as we don't no many people in Spain I can talk to