My fiancé is an ex meth addict.. along with other drugs he took back when he was around 20 years old.. right when he got into college.. he said he was on it straight for 2 years along with weed and coke.. but he said he's been clean. He is now 30 and he has these HORRIBLE outburst of anger and rage... and sometimes he looks out of it.. anything.. well not anything.. it seems like I'm his main target.. will set him off and I don't do anything to him.. really! He has troubles with his back.. his teeth... his health... is this all related to his past addiction.. and if so what can I do.. we have a baby and another on the way.. I love him and I want to help him. :(

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Originally Posted by zzmomster

My fiance is an ex meth addict.. along with other drugs he took back when he was around 20 years old.. right when he got into college.. he said he was on it straight for 2 years along with weed and coke.. but he said he's been clean. He is now 30 and he has these HORRIBLE outburst of anger and rage... and sometimes he looks out of it..anything.. well not anything.. it seems like I'm his main target.. will set him off and I don't do anything to him.. really! He has troubles with his back..his teeth...his health...is this all related to his past addiction.. and if so what can I do.. we have a baby and another on the way.. I love him and I want to help him. :(

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I'd make sure he gets tested to make sure he hasn't relapsed. And if he has... for the sake and safety of yourself and the children, consider putting some distance between you and him.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

I'd make sure he gets tested to make sure he hasn't relapsed. And if he has....for the sake and safety of yourself and the children, consider putting some distance between you and him.

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I fi even bring the thought or idea if he's on drugs he'll totally snap. Freak out.. and try and kick mee out. I'm in my 2nd trimester of pregnancy.. and I'm trying my hardest to be a good mother and a good wife. I try and talk to him but he becomes VERY disrespectful to me.. I don't want to walk away and leave him if he does have a problem again.. because no one was there for him back when he did have a problem.. everyone always brushed it off and never tried to help him. I love him to death.. but I love my children more.. but I also think my children deserve two happy parents.. not one who's always yelling at mom. Idk.. (I was just asking if those drugs could have caused him to be this way now.. but I also just need to heard)..

If he's back on meth... and cooking that up where you live... its risking the health AND life of you and your kids... that produces VERY toxic byproducts into the area.

Your description raises questions of what he's using NOW... Drug use can do a lot of things long term... but current use does far more.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

If he's back on meth...and cooking that up where you live...its risking the health AND life of you and your kids....that produces VERY toxic byproducts into the area.

Your description raises questions of what he's using NOW.... Drug use can do a lot of things long term...but current use does far more.

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Well he's a chef.. and he's never really home.. we've had a hard time before.. but we've never left each other... shoot... I don't know what to do.. pray.. ask god to cure him.. but thank you for your advice.