Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Relationships (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=277)
-   -   What to do when we lose friends, and girlfriends? (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=665957)

  • Jun 1, 2012, 12:03 AM
    ikpathan0201
    What to do when we lose friends, and girlfriends?
    I lost all my friends and I feel so lonely.
  • Jun 1, 2012, 01:03 AM
    rocketman11
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ikpathan0201 View Post
    i lost all my friends and i feel so lonely

    I have such little to go on with your situation, but I have had times in my life when I feel like what you're feeling now. I would really like to help you but I need to understand your circumstances.

    When ever I felt like this in the past I made sure I took care of myself. Do things which you enjoy, try new things, get a hobby e.t.c. this will boost your confidence and help you feel happier. When you feel happier you can be a positive person, and then you can be social and be more likeable.

    I really want to help you so please give me some more information into what has happened.
  • Jun 1, 2012, 02:09 AM
    Kahani Punjab
    I.K. Pathan,

    First of all, I would like to welcome you to this wonderful site.

    Look into yourself, dear. It is easy to blame others (even as you do not do so, or at least does not seem to say so) but tough to allege the self. Life is very tedious and you must practise humility, cooperation and a feeling of groupism, in which you must demostrate sacrifice for someone, love for someone and a sense of dignity for others. When you do so, even as only apparently, the people would get attracted towards you. Create your need in society. Do not be a dependent person. People value those who are daring, independent and dashing. Just be that. I hope these tools will help. Any query, write on... Good luck!
  • Jun 1, 2012, 02:28 AM
    LadySam
    Why do you feel you lost lost all your friends?
    Was it something that you said or did, or is it something that they THINK you said or did?
    Give us a little more this is way to vague to give you much feedback without knowing the situation.
  • Jun 1, 2012, 08:43 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    Why do you feel you lost lost all your friends?
    Was it something that you said or did, or is it something that they THINK you said or did?
    Give us a little more this is way to vague to give you much feedback without knowing the situation.


    Absolutely - this isn't about attracting and making friends. This is about losing friends. Sometimes when a relationship ends and you "lose" a girlfriend your mutual friends take sides and you lose them, too.

    I think more info is needed.

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 07:15 AM.