This guy likes me. Only not for me but my boobs. I barely know him and I didn't think he knew who I was but I guess he does.

The thing is no one told me until 2 days ago and everyone knew 2 months ago. It is humiliating and plus the guy I like won't talk to me because know about this. It is disgusting but the guy who likes my boobs won't talk to me. I talk about everything feeling I have. And I can't talk about this one because people think I'm overreacting to this and to be happy someone likes me. But I want someone who likes me for me, not the way I look or what I have.

I want this guy that I like to talk to me but he won't because he thinks I like the guy who likes my boobs. Everyone thinks I like this guy who likes my boobs but I don't. Plus no one really understands how embarrassed I am. The girl who likes this guy is being all mean to me and telling everyone I am a guy stealer. This guy didn't even know that this girl liked her. I didn't know. I didn't even think he knew me.

Everyone keeps talking about it and I want to forget it. But I can't. I am having nightmares about this and it is freaking me out. I had people come up to me and say they would you go out with him. I am like no because this guy is disgusting. They went up to him and told him to ask me out. Everyone knows I don't want a boyfriend but they ignore me and tell me I'm overreacting.

If you are getting those "creepy-pervy" vibes off someone, trust your instincts. They rarely fail you and for the most part is your subconcious screaming at you yo get a clue. So this guy you're talking about likes you because you're well endowed? You go for someone who appreciates you for YOU. Someone who makes you happy and comfortable, not nervous and unstrusting.

Men are visual creatures, everyone has their turn on and offs, him apprecaiting the fact you're cup size is bigger isn't really all that strange, but if he makes you uncomfortable, then stay far away from him. Like I said, our instincts rarely fail us.

There will be 100's of guys like this. So don't date him, Find someone else.

Don't pay attention to him. Continue living your life, who cares what he likes you for?

Don't date him if he doesn't really like you for you! There will be tons of other guys who come around who like you for you and not for what you look like :) And most teenage boys can be obsessed with what girls look like so try not to pay too much attention to those types of guys! :P

Thank you so much! I don't really see him so it is easy to stay away from him. I hope he doesn't ask me out. Everyone knows this! Everyone knows why he likes me. They all knew before me.

I really want a boyfriend. But no one likes me that I know of. But all my friends have boyfriends but I really want one. What do I do?

Slow down. You can't do anything, running around looking anxiously is why most people end up into bad relationships. Take your time, build your friendship with someone you really enjoy being around. Someone that makes you smile, and can turn a sad day in a new direction. Find that person and take it slow.

Best of luck!

Good luck! Hope everything works out! :)

Rumours suck. I really feel for you, I've had many spread about me through middle school. Much worse than this, and I got through it.

Dealing with rumours is a tough thing to understand as a kid growing up, because well, we aren't really born to deal with them. Oh and lets face it, there really isn't an easy to get a hold of handbook on how to survive them either. I really wish there was.

First step to any rumour,

Ignore it; no matter what people do, from pointing and talking, to staring and confronting, you've got to control your emotions. Showing everyone that you can get worked up over it, will only make them want to use it more, because kids love to torment.

And secondly,

Time is your friend; in time these rumour will be old news, and no one will care nor remember them. You may look back on it even and laugh, but for now let time do it's job and slowly wash the rumours away.


People love to pick on one another, it's the world we live. Some people can handle it better than others, some can't handle it at all. It's a sad ultimatum, and until people stop caring what other people think and say, these kinds of things will always happen. I just wish we were all more prepared to deal with it.

I wish you the best of luck, keep your chin up kid.

I do like a guy and he knows. But he used to talk to me and now he doesn't. I felt all awk after he knew and my friends told me to text him and tell him how I feel. I did but I think I made everything much much worse. He was flirting with me and I thought me liked me but he was doing it to piss me off. I have no idea what to do because he says hi or used to and I would just say hi back meanwhile everyone else can have a whole conversation with him. One of his friend said that I was afraid of boys and that's why I couldn't talk to him but I am really shy when it comes to this

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Thank you so much! I don't really see him so it is easy to stay away from him. I hope he doesn't ask me out. Everyone knows this! Everyone knows why he likes me. They all knew before me.

I really want a boyfriend. But no one likes me that I know of. But all my friends have boyfriends but i really want one. What do I do?

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Uggg! Isn't it so frustrating? :( I'm pretty shy with this stuff too. But if the guy you like was just flirting back to piss you off are you sure you really like him? I know what you mean, it's hard to come up with topics that you can talk about. Do you guys share any of the same interests? If you like sports then talk about like one of your favorite teams going to the championship or something (if you're from boston then you could talk about the Celtics.) ummm if you're not into sports then try calling your friends and have a whole group of your friends hang out with him and his friends; that way it's less awkward

We hang out with the same friends but I can't talk unless someone starts. I have tried liking other people it is frustrating and hard. It gets me so mad

I usually start my conversations with something like, "Ugg could you believe Mrs. Smith today? That was ridiculous! And what was with that shirt?" then he'll comment back and you could be like "anyway, what's up?" and get the conversation going

I never thought about that thank u so much

No problem :)

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Thank you so much! I don't really see him so it is easy to stay away from him. I hope he doesn't ask me out. Everyone knows this! Everyone knows why he likes me. They all knew before me.

I really want a boyfriend. But no one likes me that I know of. But all my friends have boyfriends but i really want one. What do I do?

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So what if he asks you out? You are allowed to say no. "Everyone knows he likes you." How old are you both?

13 I don't even want a boyfriend but my friends are telling me to get happy because someone likes you I want to be liked for me not what I have

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13 i don't even want a boyfriend but my friends are telling me to get happy because someone likes you i want to be liked for me not what i have

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Once again someone has hijacked your account and is posting using your screen name - "I really want a boyfriend. But no one likes me that I know of. But all my friends have boyfriends but I really want one. What do I do?" Number 6 above.

I find your posts to be conflicting and disruptive.

What is with everyone checking everything else I said? Maybe I share this account with my sister and she needs advice to

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what is with everyone checking everything else i said? maybe i share this account with my sister and she needs advice to

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The rules of this site say that there is to be NO sharing of screen names. Getting a screen name is free and easy, so your sister should register for her own and leave yours alone.