I'm 21. I am loving her for past 5 years. At first we talked to each other and became good friends. After some months I proposed her, but she refused to accept it. She said that she had never considered me like that. I love her too much. I can’t think of leaving her. In fact her wish is to love a person and marry him why couldn't’t she love me?!

I use to express my love frequently but she changes the topic. She said not to be a fool and to change my mind. I can’t change my mind I am really addicted to her. Often I use to cry at night sometimes. For past 5 yrs. I couldn't’t sleep peacefully. I am really mad about her. I thought of ending my life but I know it’s a wrong thing. I don’t know how to convince her. It’s really painful.

I told her I will live alone with her memories, but she won’t give any answer. Recently I told that she loved me at least 1 percent but it made her angry. She said that she can’t change for no one. I can’t live without her. Don't know what to do.

From the sounds of it, you two weren't even in a relationship. It's hard to comprehend from the poor grammar and spelling. I would leave her alone, because there's no way to make someone love you. Sounds to me like your beginning to stalk her, that's only going to hurt you more if she starts filing restraining orders.

It doesn't sound like you are in love, just obsessed. Stay away from her and respect her decision it is time to move on. There is no way you can MAKE someone love you, no matter how hard you want it, and when you are talking about a friend, the harder you push, the harder you push them AWAY.

She stopped talking .I couldn't bear it .it drives me mad .shall I ask her sorry and continue her friendship.will smeotherday she understnds me ? A stable mind without her is impossible for me .how to convince her what should I do ?

From the way you wrote this, it sounds like you 2 were never even together to begin with. It sounds like she isn't interested at all. Continuing to bother her about it will not only be embarrassing for you both but it may also end up making her hate you and possibly going to the next step to keep you away from her.

Just back off. Find someone who will care about you the same as you do about them.

Is there any chances of living with her .how to make feel her that I love her sincerely.?

I don't know her or you so there is no way for me to know for sure but it sounds like she is simply not interested. As was already said, if you keep trying to convince her, you're probably only going to make her angrier and push her further away.

Why not give up on her and stop wasting your time pining for someone who doesn't care? Cut your losses and find someone else.

You poor fellow, being in love with some one that sees you only as a friend has to hurt, but not accepting her rejection of the kind of love you want from her for 5 years, is way to overboard. She is already running away from your unwanted love, and attention, so obviously you are crossing the lines of good healthy behavior, and may now be starting to creep her out.

You really do have to accept she will never be your girl friend and start building a happy life without her. You cannot just keep going on trying to convince her to be yours, and this has become a silly notion after 5 years.

You need an older fellow you trust to snap you from this sick fantasy, and return you to reality. You are stuck! Consider yourself cyber slapped, and go reclaim your sanity.

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