My girlfriend broke up with me and she told me that she didn't breakup because she didn't love me, but then a few days later she tells me she doesn't love me anymore, I tried talking to her to get her back, I know that was a mistake, during the relocation she wanted time to think and I didn't. I kept telling her I missed her. And now I deleted my Facebook to not contact her. I try not to think about her but I still do, and I still love her. What do I do?

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Originally Posted by Somehurtguy

My girlfriend broke up with me and she told me that she didnt breakup because she didnt love me, but then a few days later she tells me she doesnt love me anymore, I tried talking to her to get her back, I know that was a mistake, during the relo she wanted time to think and I didnt...i kept telling her I missed her...and now I deleted my facebook to not contact her...i try not to think about her but I still do..and I still love her...what do I do..

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You've already accomplished the first step, beginning no contact. Pat yourself on the back that's a feat on it's own. Now that you've done that focus on the future and the present. Life is what you make it, and this will only slow you down as much as you let it. Try some new things, find a hobby/activity that you love, you'll meet new people in the process and open new doors.

Best of luck my friend.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

You've already accomplished the first step, beginning no contact. Pat yourself on the back thats a feat on it's own. Now that you've done that focus on the future and the present. Life is what you make it, and this will only slow you down as much as you let it. Try some new things, find a hobby/activity that you love, you'll meet new people in the process and open new doors.

Best of luck my friend.

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I know I have to move on, its hard, I've tried what you said like a week or two ago and nothings changed, but it does help, only for a while and yeah
Thanks

Just keep up what you're doing. Time is your friend now, and only he can help you heal.

Best of luck buddy.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

Just keep up what you're doing. Time is your friend now, and only he can help you heal.

Best of luck buddy.

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Thanks, ill try my best, do you think I could still have a chance to get back with her?.

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Originally Posted by Somehurtguy

Thanks, ill try my best, do you think I could still have a chance to get back with her?..

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It didn't work the first time, so why would it work a second? You're better off without her buddy, focus on the present and future and make sure it has nothing to do with her. You will heal, and move on.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

It didn't work the first time, so why would it work a second? You're better off without her buddy, focus on the present and future and make sure it has nothing to do with her. You will heal, and move on.

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Ill try my best, thanks

Just because its hard and the results are not instant, you still have to keep doing it.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Just because its hard and the results are not instant, you still have to keep doing it.

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Yeah I know, I have to try move on, it takes time, its hard and sometimes you don't want to and you just wish that it didn't happen... I just keep blaming myself..