I've been good friends with a straight guy for a couple of years now (Im gay) and we are very close, we do absolutely everything together and when we are not together we message each other all day. We have gone away for a few weekend trips and when we stay in hotels it's often in the same bed, mainly because 1 king bed is what most hotels offer. When are are in bed together I will often rub his back and head until he falls asleep because he loves it. I personally would like to take the friendship further but when I ask him why he lets me rub his back and head he always answers "it's because you like to do it." That is true I do like to rub his back but I find it hard to believe that's the reason he let's me do it. Is this normal straight guy behaviour? Do you think he has gay tendencies? Oppions please

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Originally Posted by Topyoyo

Iv been good friends with a straight guy for a couple of years now (Im gay) and we are very close, we do absolutely everything together and when we are not together we message each other all day. We have gone away for a few weekend trips and when we stay in hotels it's often in the same bed, mainly because 1 king bed is what most hotels offer. When are are in bed together I will often rub his back and head untill he falls asleep cos he loves it. I personally would like to take the friendship further but when I ask him why he lets me rub his back and head he always answers "it's because you like to do it." That is true I do like to rub his back but I find it hard to believe that's the reason he let's me do it. Is this normal straight guy behaviour? Do you think he has gay tendencies?? Oppions please

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He might have BI tendencies... certainly not gay tendencies... or he wouldn't like women like he does.

A straight man would not let you do that (except on a massage table)... and most straight men wouldn't sleep in the same bed as another straight man... much less in the same bed as a gay man.